Consensual Tea
honest and practical advice about sex toys for the real world
Scent and texture
Though this can be surprising to some folks, texture and scent are two very important factors of buying sex toys. But given that this is
Sizing things up.
What size and shape are best for your very first vibrator? The range is, well, enormous! Where to begin? First things first: while I’ll stay
So You’re Buying Your First Vibrator.
First of all, congrats! While the reasons for trying a vibrator vary wildly, most of them tend to boil down to some version of “to
Adults say the darnedest things (about vibrators)
Why would anyone want a vibrator? That’s a question with many answers, obviously, but if we skip around the folks who require one to orgasm for assorted reasons (antidepressants, mobility issues, etc.) the answer is usually because vibrators, whether you’re using them solo or with a partner, are fun! As a general rule, choosing a sex toy should be like choosing a ride at an amusement park: because it looks like a great time.
Vibrators 101: An Introduction
How exactly do you decide on your first vibrator when you’ve never tried one before? Many people start by playing with something they already own that vibrates. Back massagers are a famous (serious) joke, and many folks swear by vibrating toothbrushes. While these have limited use, they do give you a place to start, and possibly an idea of what you like. They can be a touch awkward since they aren’t designed for sex, and cleaning them can be a pain. But none of that is a big deal if you enjoy it.
